What would you tell your younger self then and now?

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And what would I tell my younger self now? I would say that you see you got through all of it after all. Yeah you could have done it differently and surely better, but you did do it. You chose a wonderful husband, and you gave birth to three beautiful and loyal really great children, and you have chosen some really special friends in this lifetime and as of late with social media.

Despite obstacles you are here. You are being well taken care of by the adult person you are.  You are and always were loved.  You were loved by your father and your grandparents and even parents of your friends growing up. You are so loved by your husband and although he doesn't complete you (because completion isn't found in another), he is the perfect husband for you. He cares about you and your well being and he loves and cares about your children so much also. He is the son every mother wants, the husband every woman wants, the father every child wants, and the friend everyone hopes to have. And you have been blessed with this wonderful man in your life for thirty years.

Here you are after 50 and you are in need of nothing. Maybe it is time you gave back beyond your children and husband and parents and in laws. It might be a great time to volunteer somewhere or just do your own charitable work. It could be in your daily walking time. You could be in doing this taking better care of both your mental and physical health , while giving back to others on the way.  Animals and people - whomever you see that could use a helping hand.

You never know what could be the next chapter in your life and it seems you are right on the precipice of it.coming about.

Don't search for anything because the best things that you have gotten in life came to you on their own and the best things that happened to you in your life actually happened by chance or fate.

Be. Do. Believe.