Become Better - De-Narc your Life.....

Does this visual make you tired just looking at it?  LOL..  Yeah.  I mean haven't we been doing this for decades??  lol...

For so long keep trying meant tolerating the narcissist and doing more for them.

Keep praying meant flipping through the channels from one television evangelist to another, seeing them putting on overdone productions, asking for more money.  They proudly admit to living lavish lifestyles from the money sent to the ministry, and back it up with "scripture."  Yeah. Click.

Staying positive meant using every crutch that worked, otherwise the last ounce we had would escape us.

All of the above made us think of the life we were born into with our narcissistic mothers.  The more we tried the harder you got hit over your head with her lies, manipulations, and CONTROL.  The more you prayed with narcs, the further away from your true intentions your prayers seemed manifest.

The more you tried to stay positive the more you relied on crutch after crutch.

We ultimately became worse before dealing with the core of our dysfunction head-on.  Dysfunction is really the word because it comes to a point where we just can no longer even function being in contact with narcissistic family members.

Some of us are stronger and can manage throughout more decades than others, and for those of us in this category, often it isn't until the age of 50 or 60 that we start the process of de-narc-ing our lives. For the lucky others who couldn't take it any longer, earlier on...  they have a fuller longer lifetime to look forward to because they de-narc likely in their late twenties / early thirties.

Become better....  De-Narc your life.